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Onkar
Aima was a pure soul
By
J.L. Manwati, Mumbai
If
I were a poet I would pour my heart out and compose an ‘elegy’, If I was a
Pastor I would sing a ‘requiem’ and if I were a painter I would paint a full
canvass potraying the multifaceted personality of Kashmir’s proud and beloved
son, Onkar Aima, who breathed his last on 28th September 2002, But,
unfortunately, I am neither a poet nor a Pastor nor a painter, so I take refuge
in the Canto (1) of the seventh chapter of Bhagavad Gita which, in my humble
opinion, broadly encompasses the personality of Aima Saheb. Lord Krishna
enunciates thus the virtues of Godly persons with divine nature in this Canto,
which, undoubtedly Onkar was: - “Fearless,
purification of ones existence, inquisitiveness of spiritual knowledge, charity,
austerity, simplicity, truthfulness, freedom from anger, compassion, fortitude,
cleanliness, passion for honour. These are the transcendental qualities of Godly
men with divine nature O-partha”. Born
in a venerable family of ‘Datatreya Kaul-Gotra’ Aima was the nickname
acquired by the family as it is said, the family was gifted with a boon to be
osteopaths (Waatangaer) who provide healing touch to people with orthopedic
dislocations. At their Fateh Kadal joint family compound, it is believed, long
queues of people with orthopedic ailments would be attended to by the family
elders who were gifted thus. Onkar may not have inherited or practicised
osteopathy of his elders, but surely he had imbibed in abundance the art of
providing ‘healing touch’, of harmony and friendliness which was evident by
his exemplary behaviour. Having
been endowed with an impressive tall personality with chiseled Aryan features
Onkar was born with masculine charm. This God gifted body of exquisite physical
features had been enveloped by Aima Saheb by his conscious effort with virtues
of a ‘human being’ which made him the most lovable person. In
the post Independence era when the cultural renaissance threw up talents in the
field of art and aesthetics in the Valley, naturally Aima Saheb with his
handsome personality and irresistible befriending qualities emerged as unanimous
choice for spearheading the cultural movement. Drawn into the cultural vortex he
soon found himself leading the cultural movement of the time. This movement not
only revived the folk and traditional theatre of Kashmir but with the passage of
time the movement became ‘Progressive Think Tank’ of the post-independence
era of Kashmir. By
this time Aima Saheb had mastered the art of friendship which remained most
amazing characteristic of his personality. Friendship to him meant life long
bond even in the vicissitudes of life - a rare quality in the present day
shifting-loyalties scenario. In
those days the siblings from the ruling clan Viz. Bakshi Saheb’s family were
his contemporaries. They could also not resist Aima Saheb’s infection of
friendship. The friendship in the following years grew so much that Onkar became
part of the family. Any other person in his place would have exploited the
relationship for his personal benefits, as was, sorry to say, wont of many of
our Kashmiri Pandits of the time but Aima Saheb with his passion for his honour
and self respect knew where to draw the line between friendship and overbearance.
This trait of his character endeared him more to his friends and he was
considered as a true selfless friend. When
political exigencies forced his politically connected friends to take a
different political stance on various burning issues, Aima fearlessly did give
vent to his feelings, but it did not create any chasm in the friendship-in fact
it continued and became more cohesive. Now that Onkar is gone, the bond I am
sure, shall always remain with his bereaved family. When
the history of cultural upsurge in Kashmir would be documented it would be
mentioned loud and clear that Onkar Aima was the lead actor in the first ever
made Kashmiri film ‘Menziraat’, which bagged the President’s silver medal
as the best regional film in 1964. Being
an ardent student of aesthetics his passion to satisfy his creative talent
brought him to Bombay in 1965 to pursue his career in film industry, leaving his
lucrative government gazetted job. The industry was quite receptive and offered
this new face a lot of chances and Aima Saheb played different roles under
famous banners of that era. But the irrepressible creative artiste in him
remained restive. Here, the composite epicurean traits of Onkar, like the
refined and discriminating taste, like subtlety of conduct, like exposition of
beauty within, like sartorial preferences, like sobriety of approach and the
finesse in all walks of life came to his rescue and he was drawn into modeling
which he made his profession. In the mid 70’s he rose on the horizon of
modeling and rubbed shoulders with the famous models of the time not only
rivaling them but at times excelling them-a cut above. He continued modeling
till the end of his life. When
television made its foray in Bombay in 1972, Aima Saheb was perhaps the among
the first few who played important roles in the Sitcoms which were featured by
the Bombay Doordarshan then. Yet the creative bug in him did not sit idle and it
made him write, produce and direct many a popular morning shows for Doordashan. While
he was pursuing his successful modeling career in Bombay, Sadiq Saheb, the then
Chief Minister of Jammu and Kashmir formalized plans for his pet project of
making a film on Mahjoor-the poet laureate of Kashmir. Prabhat Mukherjee was
commissioned to produce and direct the film. The choice of playing Mahjoor
naturally fell on Onkar who played with aplomb the role of Mahjoor. ‘Mahjoor’,
incidentally was the first bilingual film which was made in Kashmiri and Hindi
versions. The
film may not have done well commercially but it fortified the belief of Onkar
that film medium could well project the essence of ‘Kashmiriyat’, of which
he was an ardent advocate. As a sensitive artiste, Aima strongly believed that
‘Kashmiriyat’ was quintessence of harmony which, according to him, had its
origin in Kashmir Shaivism, in the Vakhs of Lalla-Ded and the Shrukhs of Nund
Resh which taught Kashmiris never to discriminate between the Muslims and the
Pandits. Aima would often quote Lalla-Ded’s Vakhs to prove the point. Naturally,
for such a peace loving person the ethnic-cleansing of Kashmiri Pandits by their
Muslim brethren from their homeland lacerated the innocent heart of Onkar and he
nearly gasped for breath of harmony. The problem faced by the community in the
wake of this turmoil agonized him beyond measure. To help the community members
he joined Kashmiri Pandits’ Association-a nonpolitical, social organization
and put his mite in mitigating the miseries of the uprooted youth and provided
them whatever succour through the Association. The
diaspora of Kashmiri Pandits, he felt, would wean away Kashmiri youth from their
culture and ethos and they would gradually get usurped by the alien culture and
in the process Kashmiris would loose their identity. Aima Saheb felt that the
least the youth could do to safeguard their identity would be to preserve their
language. For this purpose he instituted “Mohan Lal Aima Music Award’ in the
memory of his brother, Mohan Lal Aima-the doyen of Kashmiri Music, under the
auspices of Kashmiri Pandits’ Association. Under the scheme Kashmiri youth
upto the age group of 18 years are given cash awards to sing in Kashmiri. The
underlying idea is to inculcate interest in Kashmiri language through music. Notwithstanding
the turmoil of 12 years in Kashmir, being an optimistic to the core, Onkar
firmly believed that things would turn in his ‘Reshwaer’ and he would often
quote Nadim Saheb’s famous verse : Me
Chah Aash Paghaeh Pagah
Sholi Duniya He (I
hope for a better tomorrow) To
the dozens of youngsters who had landed up in Mumbai after the Pandit exodus, to
pursue their career in the field of films, Aima Saheb was a father figure for
them. He would befriend them irrespective of their age, encourage them and give
them tips and share his experiences with them. In fact he was to them a friend,
philosopher and guide. From
the family point of view Aima Saheb was not only a loving husband but caring and
understanding too. They had long years of separation when Shakuntaljai was
working for State Education Department in Kashmir and Aima Saheb was struggling
to make his mark in Bombay. It was their caring attitude for each other which
fortified their relationship. Finally when Shakuntalaji retired and joined her
husband in Bombay, the understanding nature of the couple won the hearts of the
Mumbai Biradari and they were rightly christened ‘made for each other’. As a
doting father, Onkar always treated his two lovable sons as his friends. He
believed that if the children are given good Sanskars they would grow in the
right direction. Onkar
is survived by his wife Shakuntala, Aloke-son, his wife Lakshmi, grand-daughter
Rahel, son-Abhay and his wife Radha. I am sure Sanskars of the family would keep
Onkar’s name always alive. Rich tributes have been paid to Onkar Aima throughout Jammu and Kashmir by his admirers and contemporaries. A lot of e-mails have been received from abroad lamenting the sad demise of Kashmir's noble and proud son. But the fittest tribute, I presume, has been paid through his last modeling assignment of Bharat Petroleum which he completed midway through his chemotherapy treatment braving the monstrous disease. The bottomline of the advertisement was “Pure for Sure”-“Surely” Aima Saheb was a “Pure Soul”, and such souls rarely treated this earth. The author has remained President of Kashmiri Pandit Association, Mumbai and worked closely with late Onkar Aima.
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